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They prefer the world delivered to their door
12:35 AM EDT on Monday, April 16, 2007
By G. Wayne Miller, Journal Staff Writer
Providence Journal

Nancy Thomas rarely has to leave her Cranston home, choosing to order most items online,
including groceries, and have them delivered...
The Providence Journal / John Freidah

CRANSTON -- One's home has long been one's castle, but life behind the walls has never been so inviting. Thanks to the modern marketplace, whose laws are written by human behavior, it is now possible to live at a level of comfort and convenience that medieval royalty could never have imagined.

Consider Nancy Thomas, mother of two, dedicated online shopper, self-described e-mail junkie and loyal customer of Netflix and Peapod, the home-delivery grocery service run by Stop & Shop's parent company.

Sitting in her living room next to her home-entertainment center -- stereo, high-definition TV, DVD and CD players, Cox Cable box -- Thomas describes a lifestyle that, those who follow such trends assert, is increasingly common.

"A good weekend," says Thomas, "is here."

Not that the 53-year-old never leaves her house, near Garden City. She does -- sometimes for a movie, a dinner with friends or for boutique shopping. She takes day trips and visits New York. But modern technology and creative
entrepreneurship can send more and more of the world out there into her home, giving her choices she never had before.

Once upon a time -- five years ago, say -- Thomas would get into her car, drive to a grocery store and proceed shelf-by-shelf and aisle-by-aisle, filling her cart with necessities for her family and their cat, Bella. She would endure a checkout line, perhaps bag her own groceries, then load everything into her car for unpacking back at the house.

She hated it.

"The milk and bread and all that kind of stuff -- it drives me nuts" she says.

No more.

These days, she goes online (on one of her family's four computers) and selects her groceries at the Peapod site. Every week, a truck pulls into her drive with her order.

"They're terrific. They come in and deliver it right to the kitchen."

Titles from Netflix arrive in Thomas's mailbox and movies are available on demand from Cox with a few clicks of the remote. Thomas reads books -- most bought online, even though, as she observes, "you can see Borders from my house!" There's always home-delivered pizza, of course. She looked into a dry-cleaning firm that picks up and delivers. It was expensive -- but she might have been tempted if she didn't have a daughter in high school who has a new license and is happy to run errands. (Her other daughter is a sophomore at the University of Rhode Island.)

Thomas works from home as a public-relations and communications consultant. But until recently, she worked long hours at a hospital -- and the best time of her day, she says, frequently was when she returned home, often at 8 p.m. or later.

"I was in a suit every day -- suit, heels, the whole bit," she says. "I couldn't wait to get in the door. It wasn't just the physical exhaustion -- it was the mental exhaustion. It was the beeper, the cell phone, the computer all day long."

Whether working in it or away from it, Thomas says, home means "comfort."

TREND SPOTTERS maintain that a variety of factors coinciding with advances in technology have helped create the new homebodies. With Amber alerts, bird flu and the continuing effects of 9/11, the world outside the front door can seem more dangerous.

The recent deaths and illnesses of thousands of dogs and cats from tainted pet food were a vivid reminder of the new age of risk, says Marian Salzman, executive vice president and chief marketing officer of advertising agency JWT Worldwide, and author of several books, most recently Next Now: Trends for the Future.

"There's a great deal of retreating into ourselves," Salzman says. With so much beyond individual control -- add pet food now to the list -- some people have come to believe "the only environment that I can program completely is my living room," Salzman says.

April Masini, author and advice columnist says: "It used to be fashionable to be out and about, but after herpes, AIDS and STDs made the sexual freedom of the '60s a far-and-distant memory, behavior modified and everyone started spending more time where it was safe -- at home.

"In fact, the home itself has changed. Now, more houses have kitchens that open into family rooms so that the family living spaces are more featured than ever before. Martha Stewart and other living room entrepreneurs became multimillionaires because they were onto something new and the Food Network took off like never before. People want more of what they used to get out, in."

Says Nancy O'Reilly, clinical psychologist, author, and founder of the WomenSpeak Project, an online women's resource group: "There's a world out there that presents a lot of tough issues. Busy people have busy lives. When the opportunity arises to finally go back to the home port people are going, 'Ah!' It's a matter of reconnecting."

PEAPOD has benefited from the trend, with sales rising some 20 percent over the past year in those Northeast and Midwest markets where the service is available, according to spokeswoman Peg Merzbacher. Peapod, which offers many of the same products found in a Stop & Shop store, has some 270,000 customers and continues to grow, Merzbacher says.

The smaller, East Providence-based Munroe Dairy is also experiencing growth, says general manager Andrew Yaghjian: having added about 1,000 accounts in the last year, it now has nearly 12,000 customers. The company offers traditional home delivery of dairy products -- and now, meat, vegetables, juice, desserts and more, with new items being added. Munroe delivery people, who drive those distinctive cow-themed trucks, will even rotate the stock in your refrigerator.

Los Gatos, Calif.-based Netflix, which began offering subscriptions in 1999, is seeing more explosive growth: 6.3 million subscribers last year (up 51 percent over 2005) and 2006 revenue of $277.2 million (up 44 percent), according to the company's latest annual report. Netflix offers more than 75,000 DVD titles and its catchy radio ads boast of more than a billion DVDs having been mailed.

"We live in a world that is increasingly convenience-centric," says Ted Sarandos, chief content officer for Netflix. "People are managing their time and valuing their leisure time more than ever."

THOMAS WELCOMED a reporter into her home and followed up with one of her favorite forms of communication: an e-mail.

"Forgot to talk [more] about all the online shopping, too," she wrote. "As I sit here, I see that my lamps both came from online, the magazine I'm writing for, all the books on my table, even the rug in the study. Most of the clothes
I'm wearing. One-hundred percent of my holiday gifts -- for many years now!

"Just ordered my daughter's clothes for her birthday next week -- from Victoria's Secret -- which, again, you can almost see from my house. I find the convenience terribly freeing. I still enjoy boutique shopping and specialty gourmet food shopping and fine jewelry browsing -- but I have never walked the entire Providence Place mall or Warwick Mall."

Some links from people and sites in this story:

"I was in a suit every day -- suit, heels, the whole bit.

I couldn't wait to get in the door. It wasn't just the physical exhaustion -- it was the mental exhaustion."
NANCY THOMAS, gwmiller@projo.com


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