Why Mature Women Make Better Lovers or
Life Experience is Sexy

Men find lots to like about older women, and it’s NOT about being mothered. More than 200 men all said that making love with an older woman is extraordinary:

• Experience pleasing a man
• Experience pleasing themselves
• Knows what she wants and communicates it
• No fear of unwanted pregnancy
• Comfortable with herself
• They tell you if it isn`t working
• She appreciates a good lover
• Better communicator
• Direct, upfront and assertive
• Wisdom
• Skill
• Compassion
• Humor
• Fun

An older woman also knows that most of a relationship takes place OUTSIDE the bedroom. She has more to offer there, too:

• Trust, respect and love
• Usually in a good mood
• Wonderful sense of humor
• Very giving
• Able to converse about anything
• Willing to give a man space
• Sees the best in a man and reflects that back to him
• Clarity
• Substance
• Relaxed attitude about life
• Self-possession
• Sharp intellect
• Self-knowledge
• Playful
• Relaxed
• Clear and focused on goals
• Adventure
• Perspective on issues
• Help him grow up
• More grounded and realistic
• Emotional stability
• Honesty
• No head games or confusion
• Emotional maturity and depth
• Confidence
• Know what they feel and why they feel it
• Know how to communicate what they want
• Allow a man to grow
• Calm
• Has a lot to teach a man

Source: Drawn from the book by Felicia Brings and Susan Winter,
Older Women, Younger Men:
New Options for Love and Romance;
and postings on internet message boards.